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There are many ways to turn your guy on and talk dirty to him through text. Pick from these sexting examples and turn the heat up instantly
Despite popular belief, there’s more to turning a guy on than just saying, “Let’s have sex.” While that may actually work, you can also use fancier, subtler, more exciting, and more creative ways to tease and tickle him hot.
He will also appreciate the effort *or effortlessness* you put into teasing him. This takes a good understanding of what turns him on, so that you can push the right buttons and end up with a mind-blowing lay at the end of the day.
How to turn a guy by talking dirty over text
#1 Compliment him. Men like being complimented too. Telling him the things you like about him is one effective way of flirting with him. So if you want to get the ball rolling and send him something pleasant yet enticing, go ahead and pull out your mental laundry list of the attributes you find absolutely sexy and attractive.
-“I miss having my arms around your strong biceps when…”
-“I love leaning my head on your strong shoulders…”
-“Enjoyed working out with you today—and looking at you flex those muscles.”
-“Love your bedroom voice. Good morning.”
-“Remembering seeing you getting ready for work this morning. Gives me the dirtiest thoughts.”
-“You look great in your new shirt. I can’t wait to rip it off you later.”
-“There’s something insanely hot about the way you kiss me…”
#2 Describe what you’re wearing. This is a classic that dates back to way before texting even existed. You text him details about what you’re wearing and that will definitely get his imagination going to places he dare not tell anyone else. The secret is to give him vivid imagery, yet still expertly leave some for him to piece together in his mind. Correctly done, you’ll have him thinking about ripping off whatever you’re wearing as soon as you two are alone.
-“Just woke up and I’m wearing nothing. Wish you were here.”
-“Tried on my new black lingerie. It’s got all the lace for… you know… easy access.”
-“Wearing nothing but your tie.”
-“I can’t wait to show you what I’m wearing. You’re gonna like it.”
-“I’m trying on these new bras and I can’t decide. I need a second opinion. Wanna help?”
#3 Give him control. Role playing can be exhilarating, as it can take your sex life to a whole new level. Using role play in your sexts requires a strategic buildup, but remember to keep it fun. One way to get him aroused with your sexts is by giving him the reins and bringing his inner bedroom tyrant out.
-“Tonight, I’m going to let you do whatever you want to me. Start planning.”
-“I was a bad girl and went all out shopping. It was really bad. I need a spanking.”
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-“If you behave today, I might just give you a treat later.”
-“Hot kiss this morning… I hope you can finish what you started.”
#4 A sizzling promise. There’s another fail-proof way to make sure your man gets such huge hots for you, that he can’t wait to see you and be alone with you—and of course, get your panties off. You can do this by giving him a naughty, sexy sneak peek of what’s in store for him. Build up a sense of urgency as well, letting him know that you just can’t wait to have him and want him—NOW! Sext him with these and he’ll definitely be rushing home to you.
-“I need you to get home. The wait is killing me!”
-“I can’t wait to try out the new mattress with you.”
-“I have a surprise for you and I think you’re gonna like it.”
-“Finish work early. You’ll thank me later.”
-“Let’s stay in later. I have something to show you. *wink*”
-“Don’t do much at the gym tonight—save your energy for later.”
-“Feeling tired? I can give you a massage tonight. Just let me know where you want my hands to work the most.”
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#5 Do a flashback. Another great sexting idea is to give him a flashback of how amazing your last lay in the hay was, or how great he was in bed. Let him know that you can’t get enough of him and that you want him. Make him think about how great the sex was with you, too, and for sure, he will want to do it again—ASAP!
-“You were amazing last night!”
-“I still can’t get over the way you did *insert position or move*!”
-“Whoa, thought about you and me together and it still leaves me breathless.”
-“I’ve been thinking about those lips *or some other body part* all day long.”
-“Lying in bed now, thinking about you in it. It feels so empty without you.”